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At Future of Sex Lab, we believe in a fully consensual environment for all things sex and pleasure. The Wheel of Foreplay is a fun way to explore intimacy with your partner or a date, and we have designed it to open up conversations about sex that you may not have entertained before. You may find that some of this makes you or your partner feel uncomfortable. You might also be presented with something that you’re simply not interested in trying. That’s okay with us, and should be with your partner too.
So, what does consent look like when spinning your Wheel of Foreplay?
Communicate with your partner on every wheel suggestion.
Check in for ongoing consent, and read your partner’s body language throughout.
Wheel-spinners, always ask your partner before performing any of the acts – even if you’ve done it before.
If their response is anything less than 100% enthusiastic, reassure them that it’s okay and give them an easy out.
If your partner’s spinning, speak up at any point if you do not want to try the card.
You can remove or change parts of the card suggestion – they’re yours to do with what you wish.
Indicate when you are beginning the card challenge, and pay attention to how your partner is feeling once you start.
Listen to each other.
Have a safe word – and use it as often as you need to.
Talk together afterward. What did you like? What did you dislike? Are there things that you’re happy you tried, but aren’t keen to do again?